The sex toy market for men is now well and truly mainstream, offering a wide range of masturbating toys for gay, straight, and bisexual guys. From simple sleeves to vibrating strokers, the best male masturbators are a joy to use. Just be sure to use plenty of personal lubricant – preferably water-based as silicone-based lubes can degrade these toys over time – and you’ll soon be enjoying some gratifying self-pleasure.
Aside from being super fun, self-pleasure is actually great for you. Studies show that it helps to reduce the risk of prostate cancer, because it flushes out carcinogens in your seminal fluid. Plus, it’s a natural aphrodisiac.
Masturbating isn’t just good for you, it’s a way to practice pleasure techniques that can be used in the bedroom with your partner. In fact, masturbation has even been linked to a deeper sense of sexual intimacy between partners.
The key to choosing the best male masturbator for you is to think about your needs and what sort of sensations you enjoy. Sleeves are a classic option, with soft textured interiors that mimic the feel of oral and anal sex, while strokers have shorter shafts designed to envelop your whole penis. There are also models with a range of vibration settings and interactive features. Some offer internal grooves and a textured tip that stimulates your prostate while you stroke the sleeve, while others are compatible with virtual reality porn apps for a more immersive experience.
If you’re looking for something a little weirder, try a toy that looks like an actual male organ. These are penetrable and can feel quite erotic, especially when combined with your choice of lube and anal stimulation. For example, the Flip Zero EV from Japanese sex toy company Tenga looks like it’s straight out of Star Trek and is packed with dual vibrating cores that can provide sensations similar to those you get during sex.
Whether you’re buying for yourself or a partner, the most important thing is that your masturbator feels good when used with plenty of personal lubricant. For maximum comfort, stick with a water-based lubricant as this won’t degrade your toy and is easy to clean.
Aside from that, you should also look for a masturbator that’s easy to clean, as many people (particularly those new to this type of toy) forget to wash them after each use. In fact, a third of guys never clean their sex toys at all, according to this Reddit poll, so it’s worth taking the time to keep yours in pristine condition.
Finally, most male masturbators are made from TPE and are meant to be disposable, although you can find medical-grade versions that are reusable. So make sure to read the user manual and follow any care instructions carefully. If you’re not sure what to buy, check out our top 10 male masturbators for a bit of inspiration. And, if you’re feeling extra indulgent, don’t forget to pick up some Fleshlights too!
