Male masturbating toys come in all shapes and sizes. Some resemble penetrative anus, others mimic the sensations of a mouth or cock. Others are more hands-free, like the infamous cock rings which can be used solo or with partners to keep an erection going for longer and stimulate the shaft, glans and testicles. Then there are the more high-tech devices that offer a different kind of pleasure by letting you connect to VR or sync with certain porn. There’s also a new breed of automated strokers that are self-stimulating and require no effort from the user, they do it all for you.
Whether you’re looking for a manual masturbator, or an automatic one it really depends on how much you’re willing (and able) to spend. There are men’s masturbators available starting at just a few bucks, all the way up to 800 and more for some of the more extreme male sex dolls or automated machines.
Another factor is how easy it is to clean. Some men’s masturbators are made of 100% silicone which is incredibly easy to clean. This means you can simply rinse it off with some water or lube and it’s ready to go for next time. It’s best to use a little bit of lube when using any sort of male masturbator, as it helps reduce friction and enhance the sensations.
Other toy materials can be a bit more difficult to clean. Many of the more realistic sex toys are made from what’s called SuperSkin, or a similar material that aims to replicate the feel of real skin. This material feels pretty amazing, especially with some lube, and can help create orgasms that feel very realistic. There are also sex toys out there that are more plasticy, either because they’re cheaper or to achieve a different effect.
Many men are still a bit nervous about being caught with a vibrator or sex doll, even though these toys have become more mainstream over the past decade. There’s a perception that using these toys is taboo, or that straight men who do this are perverted or sad. Sexologist Cam Fraser says that part of this stems from our culture’s image of masculinity, where men who do manual masturbation are seen as weak or sad.
However, if you want to try out a men’s masturbator without fear of being caught or being judged, you can always use some duct tape to hang it from the ceiling or something else that’s waist height. This is a great option if you live in a small apartment or have housemates who might see what you’re doing. You can also hang it on a curtain rod or the side of a dresser. Alternatively, you can just put it in your pocket when you’re out and about. The most important thing is to try out different types of toys and find the one that’s right for you. With so many options out there, you’re bound to find the perfect masturbator for you.
